[WaifuApple]

Then my question to you is if airing this out is disrespectful and insensitive, how and where is the right place to? You say there are valid concerns, but where are those valid concerns welcome without the belief of disrespect?

It started in general. Then it was said here or modmail would be the best place for such a discussion. And then here doesn't seem right, either? That's very confusing to me.